How to turn off the TV with a toddler (without a battle)
By Adam Linmore · October 14, 2026
The first week is the loud week. Expect protests, and expect them to fade. Here’s what helps:
- Replace before you remove. Put a basket of real things (pots, spoons, blocks, books) in every room where the screen used to be.
- Give screens a spot. One place and one time. A screen that lives everywhere never really goes off.
- Background TV counts. Adults talk less when a TV is talking, even when no one is watching.
- Make the hard times easier. Plan for meals, car rides and cooking dinner: a job for your child (stir, carry the napkins), a song, a snack.
- Talk, play, read, then pause. Leave space for your child to answer, in whatever way she communicates.
- Bring everyone in. Grandparents and babysitters do best with a job, not a rule.
- Keep every evaluation and appointment, even in a good week.
Communication devices are a child’s voice, not screen time. Keep them.
Written with AI assistance and checked against the cited sources.
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General information, not medical advice. If you are worried about your child, talk to your child’s doctor.