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How to turn off the TV with a toddler (without a battle)

By Adam Linmore · October 14, 2026

The first week is the loud week. Expect protests, and expect them to fade. Here’s what helps:

  1. Replace before you remove. Put a basket of real things (pots, spoons, blocks, books) in every room where the screen used to be.
  2. Give screens a spot. One place and one time. A screen that lives everywhere never really goes off.
  3. Background TV counts. Adults talk less when a TV is talking, even when no one is watching.
  4. Make the hard times easier. Plan for meals, car rides and cooking dinner: a job for your child (stir, carry the napkins), a song, a snack.
  5. Talk, play, read, then pause. Leave space for your child to answer, in whatever way she communicates.
  6. Bring everyone in. Grandparents and babysitters do best with a job, not a rule.
  7. Keep every evaluation and appointment, even in a good week.

Communication devices are a child’s voice, not screen time. Keep them.

Written with AI assistance and checked against the cited sources.

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General information, not medical advice. If you are worried about your child, talk to your child’s doctor.