Frequently asked questions
Is “virtual autism” a diagnosis?
No. It is a phrase parents use, not a diagnosis, and the book does not treat it as one. It explains where the phrase came from, what the research has found and why many researchers and autistic adults object to it.
Does the book say screens cause autism?
No. Autism is a lifelong, highly heritable difference. The book sets out what large studies have found about screens and early development, and is clear that those studies show associations, not causes.
Why does the book say no screens before six, when most guidelines say two?
Most health authorities draw the line at two, and France, Germany and China at three; thirteen Spanish medical societies say none before six. The book takes that later line as a precaution: young children learn little from a screen, the risks studies find rise with hours and an early start, and a screen-free early childhood has no known downside. The French neuroscientist Michel Desmurget recommends no screens for recreation before six (Screen Damage, 2023), and the early-intervention specialist Lori Frome tells parents to keep children “as screen-free as possible” until four (Healthy Screen Habits Podcast, season 14, episode 11, November 2025). No study proves that six is the right line, and the book says so.
Is this book medical advice?
No. It shares general information. If you are concerned about your child’s development, talk to your child’s doctor. In the United States, if your child is under three, you can also contact your state’s early-intervention program yourself; the evaluation is free.
Who is the book for?
Parents and grandparents of babies and young children, caregivers, teachers, and the clinicians who work with families.
What formats are available?
Paperback, hardcover and ebook. See the book page for stores.
Is there an audiobook or a translation?
Not yet. When one is available it will be listed on the book page.
How do refunds work?
Books bought from a store such as Amazon follow that store’s return policy. For anything bought on this website, see Terms.
Does the book name the family in its story?
No. Every detail that could identify the family has been changed or left out.
Can I quote the book or use the handouts?
Brief quotations for reviews and commentary are welcome. The book’s copyright page explains which letters and handouts in appendix A families may copy for personal use.
The full plan, the evidence and the letters you can copy are in the book.